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Post by Caroline on Sept 10, 2007 5:19:31 GMT -5
People have messaged me saying "ZOMG! You hate all kids, you suck!" Let me get one thing straight: I do NOT hate ALL children. You know when you say something out of frustration, and it may not sound completely reasonable? Yeah, this is it. I do NOT hate every single kid out there. It is the annoying, screaming children I cannot stand. I love well-behaved kids, ones I can actually interact with without them going nuts. So, please get your facts straight before wasting your time messaging me about how much you wish to slit my throat because I "resent" your precious children. Thanks, and have a nice day
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Post by TwilightStarshine on Sept 14, 2007 17:26:17 GMT -5
*grunts* Not this again. The idea cf'ers hate all children is a general misconception. Many cf'ers I've met actually like children and some of them even work with children! Fair enough- some of the people over here are more hardcore. For instance, I said I hate babies. I can't stand them. I do find them disgusting. I won't lie about what I feel when I look at pictures of infants. Why should I? Some people think of [tame] rats as disgusting vermin, others think they are the cutest pets. It's the same thing. *shrug* However, I wouldn't hurt a defenseless little baby in a million years and I despise anyone who would. When cf'ers say 'hate', we mean hate as in 'we would rather jump off a cliff if we had to be saddled with children just like you' and not 'give me a shotgun so I can blow your kid's head off'. People that keep reading more into this, have themselves to blame. If we would carry genuine hatred against children we would not be able to function in the real world. In the end, I don't expect other people to understand why I am CF. I don't understand why people reproduce either, so it's only fair as far as I'm concerned. I am CF and I'm proud of it, just like some of you out there are proud to be mommies. Having that said, I am tolerant to people with children and have friends with children. And just in case you are wondering, I like my best friend's little girl and am like an aunt to her. *blinks* I should think adults should be able to be respectful about either lifestyle choice. *shrug* Lastly. Personally, I wouldn't call someone a ' breeder' unless that person brought children into this world and does not wish to care for them or discipline them in a proper way. Breeders are passive, irresponsible parents that blame the troubles of the upbringing of their children entirely on the outside world. I do think the word is abusive and I am careful to refer only to people that are general incompetent parents. You know, the ones that end up on the hall of shame in grocery stores and generally annoy the fuck out of every sane and decent person, parents and cf'ers alike. Hence they are called breeders: they produce babies, but won't raise them, causing general annoyance to everyone. Yes, some cf'ers will refer to anyone with children as 'breeders'. I don't. Lots of other cf'ers I know don't. I don't talk down on someone that chose to become a parent and is taking care of their children to the best of their ability. Cf'ers will use the word a lot in debates because a lot of people that are giving us shit are either entitle bitches/ moos or breeders. Entitle bitches will expect you to make way for them and their offspring no matter WHAT. Moos are moms who are extremely ignorant to the great annoyance their children cause. Think of the infamous 'rampaging toddler in a restaurant' scene. Moos will sit and eat their dinners undisturbed while you are being saddled with the attention whoring of a young child. Cf'ers heckle them, as well as many responsible parents. End of lecture.
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Post by Elizabeth on Sept 17, 2007 23:57:18 GMT -5
Exactly, I love pet rats. I feel nothing when I look at an infant, except maybe disgust. Show me a baby animal, however, and AWWWWWWWWWWW We just want a place to talk about our Ponies without someone mentioning their kids, or how everything is for kids, and how special kids are. Parents tend not to be able to do this, and/or tend to bingo the CF. Elizabeth
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